Life is hard enough without us adding to it. We need to understand that Negative Things will happen. But how we react is up to us. When Life Happens, and it does, We need to Be the Positive Result. We need to be able to look for Positive in the negative. Posts are written by Dovie.
Wednesday, November 7, 2018
Decisions and Changes
Charges are hard, even when you have planned them. In my life right now I am going thru a big change. These changes are due to a decision I made almost a year ago. I sold my house and property. My X-husband and I had bought it around 1990. I had moved in 2004. In my house, I had things that belong to my children and grandchild. I have lived several places and of course, all those things ended up in that house. So I had extra bedding, extra kitchen items (plates, silverware, utilities, pots/pans, etc.). The hardest part was going thru memories. I decided since I am moving to a smaller place I am only bringing positive memories. I had a couch and chair, yes I needed it. But it was filled with too many bad memories, so it when to the curb. A gentleman asks me about the chairs, I said please take it. I told him I had too many things to move. He laughed, I understand. As we go thru life we have opportunities to remove things in our life. this was one of those time. Yes it hurts. Now the move is over, sometimes I regret leaving somethings behind, but there is a BIG burden lifted. Holding on to the past will not bring it back. Just letting go is hard, but it freeing.
Changes are hard. Negative Changes are burdens. Positive Changes are freeing. #LiveThePositiveLife